I Discovered a Secret Communication Power (Not Force) for Relationships

Uncovering powerful vibrational energy communication can bring more success to our relationships.

Have you ever failed to connect with someone even when you made a significant effort and spoke clearly? Your actions may not have resulted in the desired outcome. Have you ever observed how your words didn't impact them how you wanted? You may have spoken in the most precise language, but it didn't get through. Something invisible may be getting in the way.

Words and actions may not be enough

“...people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
― Maya Angelou

Every human has a unique life experience. They have grown from their environment, which has shaped their 'feelings.' People make decisions based on feelings, which is why advertising is so successful.

Without shared understanding and truth, relationships will lack alignment. People can't dedicate enough time to this in today's fast-moving world. We need to be more conscious in the first place to ensure we are not putting barriers in our way.

Communicating through words and actions alone may not be enough to impact someone in the positive way we desire. No matter what we say to someone, they receive the message through their own lens of experience. I talk a lot about behaviors on ZMH, but here, I want to focus on something else that is very powerful.

Everything is energy

At the most basic level, everything in the universe, including our bodies, is comprised of atoms. These atoms are not static but in constant motion, vibrating at specific frequencies.

Einstein is often quoted as saying, “Everything is energy, and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want, and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.”

If what you say to someone doesn’t match your energy, the other person will likely get a different message. Aligning yourself with specific energy frequencies will influence your life.

What am I not giving?

One of Marianne Williamson's teachings for relationships is to ask ourselves this question:

"What am I not giving?"

Everyone experiences situations in which we consider, based on the evidence, it's the other person's fault. Marianne is saying we should consider what we could have given. At first, this seems very counterintuitive. In relationship conflict, our ego will likely prevent us from asking ourselves this question.

That which is invisible to us can't be seen. Other people and ourselves don't know what we don't know. What if 'what we are not giving' is unseen? What if we are not giving the right invisible energy that we vibrate out into the world?

Power v Force

Power vs. Force" by David R. Hawkins suggests different levels of consciousness at which humans operate. Hawkins identifies a scale of human energy ranging from shame (lowest) to enlightenment (highest). This helps us identify which thoughts bring positive power (above 200) and which represent a negative force (below 200).

Power is a life-affirming energy associated with higher levels of consciousness. It emanates from peace, love, joy, truth, and compassion and creates harmony and constructive change.

David suggests everything below 200 represents force. Force is a negative energy that stems from lower levels of consciousness, like shame, anger, pride, and fear, leading to conflict and resistance. Even though we may not realize it, force can result in manipulation or coercion to get what we want.

Whenever we use force as a way of communicating or being, we create a counterforce. We will create resistance in others.

Counteracting Force

Most of us find ourselves in the lower energy frequency of force.

Have you heard someone say, "They are draining my energy"? We often blame others if our levels drop in the presence of lower vibrational energy.

That is our choice. If we stay in higher vibrational energy (power), it can dissolve the lower frequencies of others. When we bring love to the presence of hatred, it not only dissolves hatred but it turns to love.

The book indicates that force is needed to get started. Force creates the required momentum for change, so we need its experiences. To be powerful, we first need to feel powerless. Force will dissolve in the face of power.

How do we raise vibrational energy?

• Identify through introspection and acknowledge where we operate from lower levels.
• Release negative emotions and thought patterns by practicing positivity, forgiveness, gratitude, and EFT.
• Practice everyday mindfulness to connect with higher states of consciousness.
• Turn on our inner power lamp by discovering truth and operating with more compassion and love for others.

There are times when avoiding harmful relationships is essential for our health, but it's important to understand what is invisible.

You are responsible for your vibrational energy state. It's perfectly normal to operate from force more often than power. Don't worry; you can keep making positive changes and turn up your inner light one step at a time. Aligning with higher frequencies will positively impact your reality. You will be amazed at how good you and others feel.

Give it a try with others and see what happens!

Wishing you well,
Howard

"I don't know what I don't know, and I'm always a work in progress."